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Nikki Pauls DeSimone, LMSW

Nikki Pauls DeSimone, LMSW

Adoption Social Worker Nikki has been preparing families for adoption since 2004. She started out as a social work intern for an international adoption agency and just never left. Nikki is passionate about educating adoptive families about grief and loss issues, trans-racial parenting, and sharing their adoption stories. In 2008, Nikki began working for Christian Family Services of the Midwest,…

Shelley Smith

Shelley Smith

Office Manager Shelley Smith has worked for CFS since 1991 as the Office Manager.  Organization is definitely her forte and yes she can, at times, be duly considered obsessive.  Shelley is gratefully blessed to be an adoptive mom of an adult son who recently connected with his birth mother/family, which has been a wonderful experience for all concerned.  In her…

Adoptions in Kansas and Missouri

Adoptions in Kansas and Missouri

Many questions probably come to mind when you consider building your family by adoption. While adoption has been around a long time, how it is practiced continues to evolve over time. We ultimately believe that God creates families and we are blessed to assist in that process. We are licensed in both Kansas and Missouri to place children into approved…

International Adoptions

International Adoptions

Christian Family Services of the Midwest, Inc. does not have an international adoption placement program but is experienced and happy to serve families in the international adoption process. Through over 40 years of adoption services to families, we have assisted many families through successful international adoption experiences. We have worked with many agencies nationwide who serve as primary providers and…

Home Studies

Home Studies

What is a Home Study and why do I need one? Although there are many ways for a child to join your family through adoption, a home study is always required.  The home study involves a lot of paperwork and several interviews, including a visit to your home.  Although it is not meant to feel intrusive, it is a thorough…

Lori’s Birth Mom story

Lori’s Birth Mom story

When I first found out I was pregnant, I felt terrified and alone, I felt as if I couldn’t trust anyone. At that time—1993—the only available resource to me, when I suspected pregnancy, was a phone book. After cracking the book open, I stumbled upon the Christian Family Services hotline and called as soon as my boss left for dinner break. The…

Jessica’s Birth Mom Story

Christian Family Services was a beacon during one of the hardest times in my life. Choosing adoption for my baby was a life changing choice, and their advocacy and support helped bring peace and clarity to my decision. Christian Family Services and their counselors prepared me for every step of the journey by ensuring I was clear on legalities and…

Kaitlyn’s Birth Mom Story

I was almost 8 months pregnant when I first got in contact with Christian Family Services. I just got out of a bad and abusive relationship and was trying to get my life back on track after a long road. I wasn’t too sure or even fond of the idea of giving my baby girl up for adoption, but in…

Stan and Dana adopt Maia

Stan and Dana adopt Maia

When my husband and I decided we were ready to adopt, we looked into many different options. We quickly came to trust so many things about Christian Family Services as opposed to bigger adoption agencies, not the least of which were their face-to-face, phone, and email accessibility, their honesty, and their genuine love and care for the birth moms and…

Ken and Janessa adopt twice

Ken and Janessa adopt twice

We had the privilege of adopting two amazing children through CFS. What a great honor and responsibility! CFS is an amazing agency to work with. We are so incredibly grateful for their passion for God, children, birth parents, adoptive parents, and honest communication. Every person involved is loved throughout the entire process and even afterward. While the process was not…